The Mouse Trap.
As I will forever be delighted by the works and writings, and of course life, of Paulo Coelho, here is another great anecdote that he posted on his blogsite.
The Mouse Trap
by Paulo Coelho
Very worried, the mouse saw that the farmer had bought a mousetrap: he was out to kill him!
He began to warn all the other animals:
“Careful with the mousetrap! Careful with the mousetrap!”
The hen, hearing his shouts, asked him to be quiet:
“My dear mouse, I know that this a problem for you, but it’s not going to have the last effect on me, so stop making such a fuss!”
The mouse went to talk to the pig, which was annoyed because his nap had been interrupted.
“There is a mousetrap in the house!”
“I appreciate your concern and I sympathize with you,” answered the pig. “So rest assured you will be in my prayers tonight, but that’s the most I can do.”
Lonelier than ever, the mouse went to the cow for help.
“My dear mouse, what’s that got to do with me? Have you ever seen a cow killed in a mousetrap?”
Seeing that no-one was offering any solidarity, the mouse returned to the farmer’s house, hid in his hole and spent the whole night wide awake, afraid that some tragedy was about to happen.
During the early hours he heard a noise: the mousetrap had caught something!
The farmer’s wife went downstairs to see if the mouse had been killed. In the dark she did not notice that the trap had only caught the tail of a poisonous snake; when she drew near, she was bitten.
The farmer, hearing his wife screaming, woke up and raced her to the hospital. She was given the proper treatment and then sent home.
But she still had a fever. Knowing that there is no better remedy for the sick than a good broth, the farmer killed the hen.
His wife started to recover. As the couple was much loved in the region, all the neighbors came to visit them. Grateful for such a show of affection, the farmer killed the pig to serve his friends a hearty meal.
His wife finally recovered, but the treatment was very expensive, so the farmer sent the cow to the slaughterhouse and used the money from the meat to pay all the medical bills.
The mouse saw all this and thought to himself:
“I warned them well. Wouldn’t it have been better if the hen, the pig and the cow had understood that one’s problem puts everyone else in danger?”
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Forgiving and Forgetting.
It’s so complicated.
Each situation is different.
I am trying to do this in my life at the moment, but like many people I have discovered I am more human than divine.
For me it is a process – some small things ofcourse can be forgiven instantly, but it is the deep wounds that are so very difficult to forgive.
It requires intimate contact with one’s own soul to FEEL the wound and work through the pain.
It is the pain which stops the process of forgiveness.
Some people can be shown their wrong-doing so that there is a chance that they will not do the same thing to another person.
But often, a person cannot see what they have done – they have a blind spot if you like – and ultimately forgiveness is an ENERGY.
It’s like Jesus said on the cross: “Forgive them Father, for they know not what they do.” This is the most beautiful forgivenss of all.
Forgiving is RELEASING THE OTHER, AND RELEASING ONESELF.
Very often when we release the other person, the subtle energies of the subconscious FREE that person to change, because what kept them a prisoner of the hurtful behaviour they inflicted on us is the very fact that we were unable to forgive them.
THE HEART OF PARADOX.
But forgiveness has no formula. Sometimes we forget as well, and sometimes we don’t.
We are all in a global laboratory experimenting on how to forgive and forget, and I don’t think there is one formula.
Ultimately, the result is the same – THE FREEING OF EACH OTHER FROM THE OFFENCE. How we get there, is I think a path of many roads.
Blessings everyone,
Karen xxxxxxxxxxxxx